Yesterday was one of those funny days, whereby you whizz about a bit in the morning then, like an untied balloon, you deflate extremely rapidly and flop on the sofa for hours on end thereafter. So, nuff said about yesterday.
Today, however, we seemed to keep going most of the day. Wow! That’s an improvement!
We were up early to go to Solihull Hospital. John drove there and back. He insisted and said he felt up to it. The appointment was for me this time, you see. I had finally got an appointment with the Eye Clinic following my referral from the optician at the beginning of last December.
It transpires that the scans show a lamellar macular degeneration in both eyes, but mostly in the left. It’s a ‘watch and wait’ situation. Fortunately, the chap I saw was very kind and he was quite upbeat, saying that the holes in the macular were ‘quite small’ and not to worry. So I won’t.
On the way home, I had suggested to John that we call in at Oakes’ to buy some goodies for our family get-together tomorrow while we watch the coronation. He was in agreement and, in turn, suggested we stay for a bite to eat. Yep, that sounded good to me!! And who should we see as we walked in? Louise and Dave!! The very same whom we’d had to cancel for lunch on Tuesday! What a lovely surprise.
They posed with us for a photo, but were soon setting off as they were entertaining their Canadian relations and were on their way elsewhere for the afternoon. Fortunately, John’s cold is no longer infectious!!!
This afternoon I left John at home and went with Paul to visit Mum. And what a good time we had!! Would you believe it, but Mum was on top form and quite lucid for a change!!
She didn’t quite remember who Paul was, but knew she knew him somehow. She was absolutely enamoured of him though and couldn’t stop stroking his hair and feeling his muscles. I don’t know how many times she said, “You’ve got lovely auburn hair! Where does that come from?” and then, “You’re very big, aren’t you?”
She thought he had a lovely face, lovely teeth, lovely hair, lovely muscles and was in fact, all in all, just lovely.
We giggled together for the whole of the time we were there. Naturally, with Mum being hard of hearing, there is often a mix-up in what was said, what was heard, and what was interpreted. It always ends in laughter.
Mum had been repeatedly admiring Paul’s hair – and then we got to talking about age. “You are 97,” I told Mum. She could hardly believe it. Paul followed up with, “And I’m forty-two,” Mum looked him up and down, looked back at his hair and said, “You bought it, too?” And, before we had time to respond, she reached out, patted his arms and said admiringly, “It looks like you had a very good buy!”
We plied Mum with cups of tea and water throughout the afternoon to try and keep her fluids up. The first offering of tea was rejected. Mum turned her nose up and said ‘it tasted funny’. Paul called it, and thought was probably too sweet. Ahhh…. yes, it had sugar in it. The second cup of tea was initially rejected because it was too hot. We offered water instead. Mum took a sip and said it was too cold. We decided she would give Goldilocks a run for her money…….
All in all, it was a very enjoyable afternoon. Seeing Paul must have triggered something in Mum’s memory because she did remember quite a few things today – some of which made her sad to remember, but still…. it was a bit of my old Mum back and, after all the worry, she seems to be on the mend, after all. Fingers crossed it stays that way.
Home again and we had a cuppa with Paul before John and I decided to set off for Sainsbury’s. I wanted to buy a Piñata for the children to play tomorrow, and Sainsbury’s website suggested that they might have some in.
John went off to Timpson’s to get a key cut while I walked round and round and round Sainsbury’s and couldn’t see any Piñata. I asked and was directed to the stationery department. Nothing there. I asked someone else. The girl thought they’d be on the bottom shelf…..oh, there weren’t any there. “Amy will know,” she said. But where was Amy? Nowhere to be seen. The girl went to find her and, by luck, did so. “They’ll be on the bottom shelf, if we have any…. oh, there aren’t any there.” My heart sank but I was resigned to coming away empty-handed. Amy suddenly remembered they had shifted some of their stock to Aisle 4 the other day. “You could try there?” she suggested. And, guess what? Success!! Yay!! We’re going to have fun tomorrow!!
Take care everyone. God bless. And thank you for all the healing vibes – John is feeling a lot better today.