It had all been going so well. Sort of. I had been worried about John being a bit of a ‘Puffing Billy’ for the last few days, and I had asked him to get the nurses to check there was nothing untoward. Every day, they’d take his temperature, blood pressure and oxygen levels. Generally be surprised at how low his blood pressure was, but temperature and oxygen levels were in the ‘acceptable’ camp. Even this morning it seemed OK.
But, you know, the day goes on and the ol’ man does a bit of manual work and his body probably hasn’t got the capacity for it, what with having an infection an’ all. So it wasn’t really a surprise when I got back from Mum’s this afternoon to find he’d taken himself to bed, to get over having moved the trailer from one side of the drive to the other, and having had to do a fair bit of pushing and pulling.
“OK,” I said, “I’ll cook tea in a bit and let you know when it’s ready.” It was ready at seven o’clock and I went to wake/get John up. Only to find he was pretty delirious with a very high temperature – and he was wheezing well. Hmmm.
“I’ll phone the Triage nurse on Ward 19, but whatever, I’m taking you to hospital.” I declared, as I whizzed round the room grabbing all the bits and pieces to pack into the suitcase to take with him. John felt too ill to care. And I couldn’t get through to anyone on the Triage team so, having hung on for twenty-three minutes, I decided just to bundle him into the car and set off for Heartlands A&E.
I was a bit anxious as to whether I was doing the right thing. The last time John was struggling to breath, the Triage nurse had advised that I should call an ambulance. The problem with that, though, is they take him to either Walsgrave or Warwick, and neither hospital really knows his case well enough.
Anyway, we got to the hospital, and John stumbled in. They could see he wasn’t well, so took him immediately to the high-dependency emergency room. They let me explain the situation before they ordered me out. But not before they said that, given the symptoms, they would have to treat it as a possible COVID infection and would be moving him again to different unit. Oh, and I would have to self-isolate for fourteen days.
Great. Bang goes the holiday we had planned for next week in Devon with Michael and Danielle. And if I am self-isolating, how am I going to make sure John’s dressing gown and phone charger get to him now? Both of which I’d forgotten to pack in the rush. Slowly dawning on me that I can’t go out until further notice. Crumbs.
So, please excuse me if I don’t natter on about how the day went otherwise or exclaim about how the COVID infection and death rates are rising. (15,166 infections today, 81 deaths in community and 34 in hospitals on 8 & 9 October). My mind is full of the events from seven o’clock onwards and feeling bothered about the current state of play with John. More news tomorrow.
In the meantime, take care and God bless.
Oh bloody hell anne I hope it isn’t covid crickey johns not strong enough for that oh bless I wish I could help in some way if you need shopping dropping in porche or outside let me know you please take care a good luck for better news on John lots of love x x
Thanks Phil!! I don’t think it’ll be COVID (hope not anyway) so hopefully once they’ve sorted him some drips and drugs and oxygen he’ll feel better.
Sorry to hear about this. I wish we lived nearer so that we could help out. Wish John all the best from us and tell him not to push himself to the limits in future.
Neville
Thanks Nev. Thats so kind of you. And I’ll tell him, but I’m not sure he’ll listen!!
So sorry to read this. Please let us know if we can do anything. I’m sorry we are not closer to help with practical stuff. Sending our love and best wishes for a speedy recovery.
Oh Anne! So sorry to hear about John, very frightening and distressing for you both and I can only imagine how upset you are about that the upcoming holiday too! Our thoughts are with you both xxx
Thanks Michelle. That’s kind and thoughtful, but not sure anyone can do anything just at the moment. Fingers crossed all the interventions the hospital put it work quickly.
Noooooooooooooo! Like you, Anne, I doubt it is Covid but John is clearly not well and that in itself is very worrying.
We are just round the corner so if we can help just shout. Can we take his phone charger to the hospital, do shopping or run errands? please get in touch
You and John are (as ever) in my prayers
Thanks Dawn. Have only just seen this, so sorry I didn’t reply earlier. Might have taken you up on the offer of taking the charger to the hospital if I had!! Not to worry, Michael ran the errand. And, yes, I’ll give you a shout if we need anything.
So sorry Anne that he is once again in hospital. Let us hope it is not Covid. If there is anything we can do – we don’t live that far away!
That’s really kind of you, Fran. Thank you. Will let you know if there’s anything you can do.
Oh Annie, much in my prayers love to you and John, stay strong xx
Thanks Lizzie