After the hectic-ness of the last few days, we took it easy today. A slow, but not too late, start, just taking our time. We had intended to Zoom with Lily this morning on some home-schooling, but she was sleeping over at her friend’s so we didn’t do that in the end. Maybe it’ll happen another day – although, being the summer holidays now, it does seem a bit mean….
John spent the morning looking over his wiring diagrams and researching bits and pieces on the computer. I read my book, and then spent a good half an hour rummaging in among the mountains of wrapping paper, gift bags, gift tags and cards that I have in my cupboard, for something suitable to wrap up a very special parcel.
At some point during the morning I reminded Mum that plans are afoot for her return to her flat. On Wednesday. “That soon?” she said, shocked, as if it was the first time she’d heard it. “That’s not very long away, is it?” and she looked uncomfortable. “No, it’s not, but it’s going to be OK.” I reassured her. “I’m going to go over to the flat today to do a little inspection, would you like to come?” Yes, she thought she would.
Suddenly, not having done very much at all, it was lunchtime and we were nonplussed by a phone call from the manager of Mum’s flats. Mum’s hot lunch had arrived on site. Hmmm, I was sure I’d re-instated it from this coming Thursday. The manager said, no worries, the driver will bring the lunch to our house. Well, that put Mum into a tizz. “I don’t know if I’m coming or going.” she said. But she did sit at the kitchen table and eat it all up – mains of a sausage casserole and mash, and dessert a fruit pie and custard. She seemed to have no trouble with it once she got going.
John and I sat outside on the patio in the sunshine eating our Mediterranean salad and pretended we were on holiday in Nice. We basked in the sunbeams and warmed our bodies in their heat. It was lovely. Unfortunately, unlike Nice, there was a westerly wind which cooled the air as soon as a cloud crept over the sun’s face. So, we weren’t out that long in the end. And, in any case, John’s mind was on his wiring….
I took my cup of tea into the lounge and watched daytime TV with Mum for a little while before braving it to get her ready for the trip to her flat. John sat beside me, also watching daytime TV. “Oh, I don’t know why I’m sitting here,” he sighed, “I’m keen to get on with the car.” Yes, but just a few minutes rest and the suspension of having to think was very peaceful.
“Right, then Mum, do you want to get ready to come with me to the flat?” I asked, as the programme came to an end. She looked doubtful and then said no, she didn’t think she’d come. I think she’s putting off the dreaded day. So I went on my own, which was just as well, as I wanted to straighten her room up after we’d installed Aunty Mollie’s chair the other week.
When I got back, John was still very busy with the car and threatening to go up to the motorist’s shop again. He didn’t in the end and ordered the bits off the internet instead, because he didn’t want an argument. Me? Argue? I have no idea what he’s talking about. I, on the other hand, sat and drank tea again, and then nodded off on the sofa. Unintentionally, of course, as it just crept up on me. Darn it!
Suddenly, once again not having done very much at all, it was another mealtime. I offered Mum the egg sandwich I had planned to give her at lunchtime. She was startled that she was just having a sandwich, so I pointed out that she’d already had a cooked dinner today. “Have I? I don’t remember.” Ah well. She enjoyed her sandwich though, in any case.
More TV watching – John in the kitchen because he couldn’t bear to watch Panorama, which was just a re-hash of what we already know, and because he wanted to watch Luther which is a bit near the knuckle for me. Mum and I whiled away the evening watching a gentle programme about Devon and Cornwall and spotted an area of Devon where our friends, Rob and Kaye, live. All very relaxing, and a restorative day.
I was hopeful today when the newscasters announced that the vaccine trials are showing promising results. How wonderful it will be if we can go out without the anxiety of encountering the pesky virus. Fingers crossed that today’s figures continue the downward trend as the government report shows 11 deaths today and 580 lab-confirmed infections; and the NHS spreadsheet shows just one death in a hospital setting yesterday. What trumpet sounds there will be when we get to zero in a hospital setting, at least.
And so another day enriches our souls. I am not sure what I have learned from today, but I do know that I have been grateful for it, because it hasn’t been a difficult one. I’m keeping my fingers crossed that the days ahead are not too difficult as I winkle Mum out of her favourite ‘Blue Room’ at our house back to her sheltered accommodation. I’m sure it’ll be fine…….gulp.
God bless and take care everyone.
Hope all goes well for you with your Mum, thinking of you x
Thank you!!
Good luck with the move I’m not sure how she will get on but you need to do it I’ve been in a lot over the last few weeks but been busy with calls etc sorting my uncles funeral etc I think I told you he died of co- vid we had his funeral but he was cremated and I’m having to sort out getting my aunties plot signed to me so we can lay him to rest there there’s been so much to sort out it’s all paid now and I’m just waiting for a date as soon as the weather is good I ll phone you to see if it’s ok to pop on front garden and have a chat love to you all x x
Thanks Phil. I’m not sure how she’s going to get on either and she’s a bit reluctant but I am hoping for the best. Sorry to hear that you’ve had such a lot to do with your Uncle’s estate. Everyone relies on you so much – you are a star. And yes, we’d love to see you – no need to stand on the front, we can sit in a chair in the back garden and have a coffee.
Lots of love